16 Weeks, and Helen

We went to the doctor again today. The heart rate is around 160-161. According to the “Old Wives Tale” this means we are having a girl. I’m not exactly sure what that tale is, or what the ranges are for girls vs. boys, but we’ll take each little indication that we’re having a girl this time and hold onto it as fact simply because we really want to believe we are having a girl this time. We go again the first week of January. That will be the big one, the one where we get to bring a VCR cassette and record the sonogram. For you folks that were born after 1980, it’s a magnetic tape used to store video. For a full discussion on the VCR, see the wiki page. It’s also the visit where we will be able to find out for sure (as sure as one can be about these things) whether it is going to be a boy or a girl.

The baby is moving a lot lately. I actually felt it kick last night. We tried to get Alex to feel the baby, but he would burst out into uncontrollable giggles. I don’t know if he was just really uncomfortable or freaked out or what. He could not keep it together long enough to feel the baby kick. He is so excited though and talks about the baby all the time.

We got to spend Thanksgiving with my parents. We had a great time and stuffed ourselves silly. After Thanksgiving we drove up to Helen for the weekend. The weather was beautiful on Saturday, and we spent most of the day walking around Helen and doing fun stuff with Alex. He got to ride one of the horse drawn carriages. Alex and I also got to see a really, really big model train set. The thing was two stories high. You can see pictures here. Alex was so amazed. He loves trains, and this was just so cool for someone who loves trains.

12 Weeks, No Boy Parts Yet

It is still to early to tell, but we actually want to know the sex of the baby we grasp at every clue and make more meaning out of it than we probably should. At 12 weeks we can see the two little femurs with nothing in between except for the umbilical cord. This could either mean that the little boy parts haven't dropped yet, or it could mean that they never will because it is a girl. It is weird how with Alex we wanted it to be a surprise and that it didn't bother us not knowing what the sex was until he was born. With this one we don't know and it is driving us crazy not knowing. We've decided that we want to know and that makes it hard to wait to find out. So we still don't know if it is going to be a little girl or boy yet (we haven't completely decided on the names yet, just kicking the tires on a few names to see how they roll).

The heart rate looked good, but they neglected to tell us what it was. Everything looks healthy, and we could already see the baby moving around. He/she measures around 12 cm head to butt (just under 5 inches).

Alex went with us to see the sonogram. He says “guess what, the baby is going to get bigger in a month, did you know that? Mommy tells me that, and I tell my friends that too.” He sat there, wide eyed. He is so excited to be a big brother, and has already told us that he will share his room with the baby. He was upset when we said that the baby would have its own room. His teacher says that he talks about the baby every day at school. We think he is going to be a wonderful big brother. He is so caring.

We are busy preparing, whenever we can find spare time. We already put the call out to see if we can get our old baby stuff back, as well as any hand-me-downs from friends. We are very lucky to have such a good group of friends and family. It makes it easier since we just rotate all the baby goods to whoever needs them.

We are into the second trimester now. Jenn is feeling better other than having a little cold right now. Poor Jenn just gets over the morning sickness and now is just plain sick. She is tired of not feeling well. We are really looking forward to the second trimester. It is such a wonderful time.

Anyways, wish us luck and keep your fingers crossed for a little girl!